Realtor in Alta Vista Attacked While Showing House

“Realtor showing house to complete stranger attacked and injured.” This made the local news in the Austin area on Sunday October 12, 2008. According to Master Gary Schill from Peak Performance Martial Arts, this type of attack can be avoided, however precautions are rarely taken to ensure their safety.

Mainly due to people’s embarresment, these crimes are not always reported.

The broader picture is even more dangerous. Look at how many people meet someone without ever requiring information about them or checking in with someone prior to meeting. How many Craigs Lists transactions, ebay transactions, classified ads for a product, service or personal ads. Someone is purchasing or selling something to someone whom they have never met. They never ask for identification, give someone a description of whom they are meeting, the type of vehicle they are driving or the license plate number of the vehicle.

I want to give you a few safety tips that help you avoid being trapped in a situation.

1) When meeting someone, do it in a public place. Try to have someone with you, there is power in numbers. Make sure you arrive before they do, have an exit strategy set up if something does not feel right.

2) Make sure someone knows where you are at, how long you will be and the name and DL# of the person you are meeting.

3) When you meet the person, tell someone on the other end of the line that you are meeting that person now, make sure the person you are meeting hears you relay this information.

4) Take a picture of them with your cell phone and transmit it to the person who knows your whereabouts.

5) If your transaction is in large sums of cash, meet at a bank or a secure location. You set the terms of your meeting, do not let them set them.

6) Be weary of Self-Defense courses, roughly 95% of them are inaffective. Why, not because they do not have good information. Many people go take a course and never practice what they are taught and thus they lose what they do not use.

7) The greatest tip I can give you, trust your sixth sense. If it doesn’t feel right, then leave. Many times we do not trust our gut instinct. Most of the time it is right on the money.

Due to the good nature of people in Texas and throughout our great country. Many people are victims of predators that had they taken a few precautions, could have prevented being harmed or even worse killed.

If you know someone in the Real Estate industry, you need to have them read this blog. If they will register online at www.PeakPerformanceMartialArts.com, I will send them these safety tips for free.

Maintaining Children’s Confidence During Economic Bailout

Maintaining Children’s Confidence During Economic Bailout

The Top 5 Things Parents Must Do To Ensure

their Child’s Emotional and Mental Health

Our children are being affected by the Economic bailout more than you realize and it is probably affecting their confidence. Let’s face it, you cannot turn on the television or the radio without someone talking about the Economic bailout of our country. You cannot pick up a paper without it being plastered on the headlines. Everything is all doom and gloom. There are some issues with the economy, but things are not as bad as the media portrays. Negative News sells more advertisement.

My name is Master Gary A. Schill, I am the owner and chief instructor of www.PeakPerformanceMartialArts.com. We provide child and family development in Cedar Park, Texas and the surrounding areas and have done so for more than 20 years.

I know you are saying “What does this have to do with my child and their confidence?” Children listen more often then we realize. They are also very attuned to us, their parents and our reaction to what our Congress and Senate ARE NOT doing to solve this issue.

When they feel you get stressed out about financial situations or any situation for that matter, they start to wonder if their environment is safe and if everything going to be okay. 90+% of our children do not have the communication skills to express to you their fears and anxieties. If you get right down to it, most adults do not have the proper communication skills to convey their fears and anxieties either.

Here are some actions we must take as parents to ensure our children’s confidence:

  1. Do not allow your child to listen to the news, that is really good advice for you as well. Negative media sells a great deal more advertisement than positive media does any day of the week.
  2. Do not react in a negative manner in front of your children when you hear bad news. They learn to deal with pressure from us.
  3. If they hear something negative from one of the media outlets and they have questions, talk with them about it. Don’t just tell them they are too young to understand. If you are going to have the media filling their head, you better decipher it.
  4. Reassure them that everything is going to be okay. We are their leaders, their foundation, their rock. They need to know from us that they are safe, comfortable and confident.
  5. Have them read books about persevering, staying positive and learning to exceed during troubling times. More success and wealth are built during times of crisis than in times of boom.

Master Schill is an expert in child and family development. He works closely with families on building children with better confidence, self-esteem, focus and determination. He is on an unstoppable mission to build children and adults that are impervious to bullying and negative peer pressure. Master Schill has been featured on the cover of Tae Kwon Do Times and writes articles for local and national media.

You can learn more about his programs at www.PeakPerformanceMartialArts.com, if you wish to book him for an interview, please call 512-658-1804

Mental Flypaper

As I work with children and their parents everyday in my Martial Arts Studio, Peak Performance Martial Arts in Cedar Park, Texas. I realize more and more how much things have changed with our children in the past 20 years. While the children I worked with 20 years ago faced mental challenges. The children confidence and self-esteem get rocked much easier and more often than they used to.

One of the lessons that I we teach our children is not allowing other people’s opinion or comments towards them affect their outlook on life. There is two sayings that we teach our students. The first is “Your opinion of me is none of my business and frankly I do not care”, the other is “This is my environment, you are a guest, act the right way or leave”. Too many times people give their power away to someone else, allowing their opinion of them shape who they are.

They start allowing the voice in their head to start spitting out negative thoughts about themselves that can compound any situation they are dealing with. Many times this “Chatter Box” can cause them to not face situations that will only grow more difficult over time. By not addressing fears, doubts and challenges they can spiral out of control.

One of the techniques we use to help students deal with these challenges is learning to recognize the “Chatter Box” and the other fears they may face. Using a “Mental Flypaper” sheet, they write down the fear or negative self talk on a piece of paper. From there, they write down what kind of “Negative Thought Type” they are dealing with. The next step is to start focusing on what the reality of the situation is. This can be done by stepping back and analyzing the situation, incorporating a mentor, coach or parent to help deal with the emotional and mental challenge they are faced with.

The sooner we can teach our children to recognize when these fears and anxieties enter their lives and provide them the tools the deal with them. The sooner they can face them and overcome them.

One of the biggest challenges we have all faced are challenges that we do not know what the outcome will be. If we teach our children how to handle adversity calmly and with clarity and focus they will not be afraid to face these challenges and let preverbial molehill turn into a mountain.

Parents I cannot stress enough to you the evil forces are children are facing today. They are far greater than we had to face growing up. One of the reasons why is there are far more negative infleunces than ever before.

You need to manage their data input, do not allow them to learn things from other people that they should be learning from you. Since 97% of us did not have parents that had all of the answers growing up and you choose to hire someone to assist with their development, check them out first, don’t just blindly trust them to influence your child or family unless you know they have the proper credentials or training.

If you live in the Cedar Park, Austin, Leander, Round Rock or Georgetown Texas area and want a program that will greatly enhance the mental and emotional toughness of your child, then you want to learn more about our very unique Martial Arts Program. At Peak Performance Martial Arts we have program specifically designed to take you family to the next level. CLICK HERE to receive a special offer to try our amazing program.

I will even back it up by a 100% money back guarantee.

 

 

 

26th in the World in Education. Why the proper After School Program will help your child.

Peak Performance Martial Arts
After School Enrichment Program

Why We Are Ranked 26th in Education in the World.
Why a Progressive After School Program
is the Ticket for YOUR Child’s Success

     As the start of school draws near, parents start to scramble for where to put their children for After School. For many, they seek convenience, instead of what is most important for their children.

    Now I know that I probably angered a few parents with that statement but let’s look at why I made this statement.

     Let’s look at options most parents are presented. They can use the day care they have been using for years, but frankly, most day cares are designed specifically for infant to pre-school age children. Many of them to provide after school programs, however, most of their programs do not have a specific curriculum designed for the K-5th grade students. They can use the YMCA, a great organization, but let’s look at who is in charge of your child. A teenager, just out of high school or maybe a young college person. Do you think that their primary concern is the well being of your child. I think not, it is a job. Most of them do not have children of their own and have no clue what parents go through when the physical, emotional and mental development of their child is at stake. However, it is convenient and the price is right. Although you know the old saying, “You get what you pay for”

    Many of the day cares allow the children to play video games, play indoor or outdoor games and some even allow them to do homework if the child is disciplined enough to do it on their own. Having owned a facility that pioneered After School programs for children in Cedar Park, Texas I can tell you that the majority of children will not do their homework without supervision. In fact, they will go through pain staking steps to find ways to get out of doing it. Even if they do it, they will rush through it, use sloppy handwriting and try to do the absolute bare minimum to get by.

    Video games are causing our children and adults for that matter great harm in our society. I love playing video games as much as the next person, but a recent study shows the average child is playing video games as much as 40 hours per week. Parents are using video games as a baby sitter and form of entertainment so they do not have to be parents and work to keep their children stimulated without electronics.

    Many children today are being diagnosed with ADD, ADHD, Bi Polar, Autism and I truly believe that their are 6 major factors that are causing these to be so prevalent with our children today. One of these is the long term affects of playing video games, keeping their brains hyper-stimulated for long periods of time and constantly dumping large amounts of body producing chemicals into their blood stream. This keeps them in a hyper-stimulated state for long periods of time, so when they are asked to sit still and keep quiet in a class room, they are unable to adjust to being quiet and still.

    One thing I have noticed over the past 20 years is that our children have shorter attention spans and the hardest time focusing. There are many reasons for this and I will get into that at another time, but the fact remains our children are facing some very large challenges. Much greater than we did when we were growing up. Now is the time to make sure that your child is not being left behind in a very fast changing world.

    Our world is changing this very year. World markets are changing faster than any other time in history. More wealth is transferring hands than any other time in history. While the United States is still the wealthiest nation in the world, we ranked 26th in Education. India and China are producing more Billionaire than we are, their emerging markets are causing jobs once held by US Citizens to be transferred abroad. When was the last time you called tech support for anyone and the other person on the phone didn’t have some kind of foreign accent.

    Our public school teachers are working in an environment that frankly is like running up hill on an oil slicked road. In Texas we have a standardized test called the TAKS test. Frankly it is setting our children up for failure. The schools spend so much time focusing on a test, they are not being allowed to teach. There is so much infuses being put on this test, that scare tactics are being used on the kids in hopes they will perform better. Our children are becoming professional test takers, they are not learning what will really help them as adults in society. Another reason why we are 26th in Education.

    Many countries require their children to go to school like a full work day 8-5 M-F and half day on Saturday’s. I can already hear some parents saying, that is just cruel, kids need to be kids. I agree that kids need to be kids, but children are like sponges, the more they can ingest and learn at an early age, when they do not have the limiting beliefs that adults have, the more likely they have to being successful. We the parents are the problem.

    Do you realize that someone not born in this country is 6 times more likely to succeed than our own children that are born right here in our own country. Why? Because we coddle our children too much. They are not given the same level of responsibilities we were growing up. We do everything for them and frankly, they are unable to function. They have no discipline, focus, ownership of actions and appreciation for a solid work ethic. Many children have a serious entitlement mentality and we the parents enabled this.

    What does all of my rambling have to do with After School Programs? Let me tell you, when I started the article, we talked about the different kind of After School Programs. I wanted to discuss why the program at Peak Performance Martial Arts will give your child exposure the development tools that day cares just do not use and frankly teenagers and young college students have never been exposed too.

    It is a proven fact that the Martial Arts are 10 times more effective at developing children and adults for that matter than any other development program. That includes all sport extra curricular activities, dance, music, gymnastics. The closest program to the Martial Arts is Boy Scouts and as great as their program is, it still falls short.    

    Peak Performance Martial Arts After School Enrichment Program has been serving the Cedar Park, Austin, Leander and Round Rock Texas communities for more than 10 years. The last 8 years we have provided After School programs for Leander ISD and Round Rock ISD. Our Proven Success System is curriculum driven to provide proven results for children and adults of all ages.

    There is a specific success formula, it is highly documented and yet less than 3% of the worlds 6.5 Billion person population even know it exist. The top athletes, business people and entertainers know and practice this formula daily. Here is the big secret that the day cares, YMCA and other After School Programs can not offer. I know the secret, I have studied with some of the most successful people in the world and the best thing is, we teach it in our academy.

    Children in our academy are 10 times more likely to succeed than other children that are not. My question to you as a parent is, “Wouldn’t it be worth checking into to see why we have so much success”?

    For many parents, they have the most warped, incorrect and false stereotype of the Martial Arts. They seem to believe that the Martial Arts promotes violence, teaches kids to bully other kids. That we teach religion as part of the art. If you mean we teach, respect, courtesy, honesty, humility and self-motivation, then yes. However, most academies, including mine, never touch on religion.

    I personally believe that God is my Lord and Savior. It would however, be very arrogant of me to tell another family their beliefs are incorrect. I am not here to debate religion. I am here to develop boy, girls, women and men into the best they can be. A Professional Martial Arts School embraces all people regardless of their race, creed, religious orientation or any other features or behaviors that make them different than me.

    Most of the parental population do not realize the revolutionary change that is occurring in our society, right now at this very moment in history. I do believe that most parents do want their children to have more than they have or had. However, many parents need to understand, for your children to have more, they need to be involved in personal development now, otherwise, they will be not better off in their lives at the same age than you are today. If you are not growing, you are dying.

    Parents, if you want more for your children than we had growing up, then take a look at my program. I will tell you that I do not allow every family that applies for our program to join. If you are not willing to support your child and lead them on this difficult journey they are facing, then, we are not the place for you.

    Either way, be a parent, get them involved in development programs that build the life skills they need to be successful, because frankly, our education system is broken and there is no reason why what so ever, that the United States of America should ever be ranked 26th in Education.

Stay tuned for more articles that will help your family grow and prosper.

Master Gary A. Schill

Parents, Your Child Does Not Need A Cell Phone

Parents, Your Child Does Not Need A Cell Phone

Master Gary A. Schill

Peak Performance Martial Arts

Parents, why in the world do you think your elementary or possible middle school child needs a cell phone.

We did just fine growing up with out them.

If you just can’t say no to your child and need some will power, let me give you some very alarming news.

It is the bright shiny object, it will capture their attention for a while, but when it does no interest them anymore, they will want the next new shiny object.

School age children are already experiencing verbal and written communication skills challenge today. Throw in the texting and they are learning to write improperly. Teaching are already seeing test scores drop. They are also experiencing children who are having so much difficulty spelling words and writing. This is due to the fact they are using acronyms on their phone, more than they are writing down words in full sentence structure.

When they are on their phone, they are 10 times more likely to be involved in some kind of environmental issue. No I am not talking about running into a tree. I am talking about being assaulted by a stranger, hit by a car, etc.

So parents, do not go blindly into that the Good Cell Phone Purchase, Make the child wait.

Parents Need to Start Being Parents

Parents Need to Start Being Parents

Master Gary A. Schill

Peak Performance Martial Arts

Yes, I know, I just angered some sensitive mom or dad somewhere. Frankly you wouldn’t get upset if you were being a parent in the first place.

Being a Professional Martial Arts Instructor, we have seen just about every dynamic possible with families today.

Our children are heading for a very difficult time. I truly feel, the most in our history. The main reason why is parents have stopped parenting. They are relying on everyone else to do their job.

They are relying on the schools to provide all of their education. Guess what, we are ranked 26th in the world. We have 3rd and 4th world countries, whipping our butt. Most parents want to keep their head buried in the sand. It is time to pull your head out and start parenting and leading your children.

The top three things you need to teach your children are respect and courtesy, that means saying sir, ma’am, please, thank you and your welcome. There needs to be a set routine in your house, the children feel much more comfortable and confident. The third step is to tell them you love them and believe in them, our world is very harsh today.

Parents, step up and parent, if you do not know how, then ask, or visit my web site www.SuccessfulFamilies.com

Kung Fu Panda Movie

Kung Fu Panda Movie

Great Plug for Martial Arts Industry

Could Lead Parents to Make Incorrect Studio Choice

Master Gary A. Schill, Peak Performance Martial Arts

Let’s face it all Martial Arts Schools are NOT the same. If fact, there are only a handful that I would consider Professional. Most Martial Arts Schools are run by hobbyest, they love the Martial Arts, but they really know nothing about developing children, adults and families.

The Kung Fu Panda movie is great for our industry, but it is giving potential parents the wrong impression about industry. They see the movie and they are believing that all studios are the same.

Their perception of a Professional Martial Arts School is no where near the reality. Why? Mainly, because they do not know the difference. Truthfully, most instructors do not know the difference.

Parents need to be informed as to what they need to look for in a school. The first piece of advice I am going to leave with you is “The Style Makes No Difference”. Now my colleagues are having a fit right about now, but if they were to be honest, they would say the same thing.

The important things are the studio appearance, the instructor core and their experience in teaching not how many championships we have won. Their needs to be a tested and proven curriculum and there are many other factors associated with a professional school that can only be experienced at one.