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Women Critisize Themselves More Than 36 Times Per Day

There was a new study released that shows women critisize themselves more than 36 times per day. There is a book by Susan Jeffries called “Feel The Fear and Do It Anyways” it talks about your “Chatterbox”. You know that little voice in your head that is extremely critical of everything you do, how you look and how you feel.

We teach our students at Peak Performance Martial Arts about how to turn this “Chatterbox” off, in fact, we are very specific, you need to tell you little voice to “SHUT UP”. Our world is so negative, the last thing we need is to be negative with ourselves.

If you are having challenges in your life that are causing you a great deal of stress, all it does is just expand. There is a little saying that goes “what ever you focus on expands”. When you focus on self-doubt, all it does is expand. If you tell yourself that you are overweight and you will never be able to get in the shape you want, guess what, you won’t. On the contrary, if you learn to focus on the positive and set clear cut defined goals, then you will be able to fit in the bathing suit or pair of jeans you have always wanted to wear.

If you are unable to do it by yourself, then find a mentor to lead you to where you want to go, surround yourself with successful people and you will become successful yourself.

Best of Luck,

Master Schill

Child Predator is own child’s worst nightmare

As a parent I am horrified about hearing the news that 5 year old Shaniya Davis was not only reported to be sold to pay for her mothers drug habit, but I just learned that Shaniya Davis was reportedly found dead.

Antoinette Nicole Davis, her mother faces many charges, but what really is troubling to me is that for many parents who ask for my help in teaching them and their children safety tips, I truly do not know how to address this one.

I can teach children and parents on what to do to avoid predators, especially someone they do not know, what I cannot teach, especially to a 5 year old is avoiding the people that they trust the most, their mother and father.

There had to have been signs that people or family members should have seen. Why didn’t anyone do anything. I know that once the ball was rolling, Fox News did a great deal in spreading the word and getting her picture and the hotel her father and her visited up on the television.

We as a society need to start going back to the villiage mentality. It takes all of us to raise the children, not just one of us.

Keep your child safe and educate them on the dangers in the world.

The Biggest Man I Know

7 years ago I had the pleasure of meeting Sean Stephenson. Sean suffers from a rare disorder that literally makes his bones as brittle as rice paper.

From the time that I met him I knew that he was somene very special and we hit it off immediately.

I don’t often send you messages that aren’t about some sort of way to grow your family or your business, but every now and then, something comes along that is simply worth sharing. First, let me pose a question to you: Would you trade places with a 3 foot man in a wheelchair?

Before you say “NO WAY!”you need to watch this video from a friend of mine, Sean Stephenson (it’s only about 3 minutes and TRUST ME, it’s worth watching)

Seriously, just watching this 3 minute video of Sean, will eliminate any and all self defeating beliefs within you.

I hope this helps you realize, as it did for me, that anything is possible and that you really can achieve anything.

This is beyond inspiring – it’s a wake up call for all of us.

And, if you like what you see, you can help-me-help Sean. Sean got a pilot deal for a show about his daily life, struggles and achievements, on the Biography Channel. He needs all of us to tune in, in order to get him enough viewers to push his show to the next level, so he’ll get it funded and can take his inspirational story to millions of people, to help them overcome adversity. If you like what you see on the short clip I just shared with you, PLEASE mark your calendar and tune in for Sean’s debut.

The show premiers Sunday, November 15th at 7PM and 11PM PT, 10PM ET on the Biography Channel.

Make sure you tune in, and find out why Jimmy Kimmel calls him ‘the Yoda of personal development’.

If you watch *only one* tv show this year, make it this one.

Thanks for your help with this. Please feel free to forward this around and make it as “viral” as you like. It’s your chance to help a lot of people out there.

I will also post a link on my web site www.PeakPerformanceMartialArts.com just in case you miss the showing on Sunday for the replay that is located on the web.

It is really worth the time you spend to see Sean, he is amazing.

Master Schill

Teenagers Moral Compass Heading South

If you watch the news at all, you heard last week that a teenage girl was brutally raped outside the school where the homecoming dance and festivities were in full bloom.

You also heard that there were 20 people involved, either participating in the rape or watching and twittering about the event.

What is going on that the moral compass of our children. More importantly what is going on with parents that are not instilling in their children the basic difference between right and wrong and the leadership ability to stand up and fight against and horrific injustice this young girl experienced.

Today they arrested a 7th suspect who participated in the act, unfortunately, the spectators are not liable under the law to do anything because the girl is of a certain age.

I do not know about you, but wrong is wrong, and it there shouldn’t be an age criteria for failing to report rape because the girl is over 14 years of age.

My team at Peak Performance Martial Arts has been working with families for more than 12 years, I have been mentoring people via the arts for more than 20. I have a daughter of my own and I can tell you that we have seen a definate change in the morals and honor our children are being raised with.

It is time for us as a nation to get refocused on building successful kids. We have gotten away from raising the kids with a villiage mentality. Our children are being bombarded with negative influences far greater than we ever did growing up.

It is time for parents to wak up and smell the coffee, your children are far more technologically savvy than you are and they are being exposed to nemesis that would rock you to your core.

Did you know there are more than 750,000 online predators that are not registered as sex offenders? The one’s that are, there is no online registration for these predators and they ar free to rome the airways looking for kids who are venturing into areas they have no business venturing into.

Let’s work on keeping our kids safe, please sign up for automatic alerts to my blog and upcoming kids self-defense site that will help you keep your children safe at all times.

Thank you,

Master Gary A. Schill
Peak Performance Martial Arts
http://www.PeakPerformanceMartialArts.com
512.918.8921